On June 22, Datuk Dr. Lim Siow Jin delivered an inspiring and heart-touching teaching from the Ekotara Agama 20.11, a treasured text within the Buddhist canon. The session focused on one of the most profound lessons taught by the Buddha: the immeasurable gratitude we owe to our parents.
The Buddha’s Profound Analogy
The Buddha states:
“Even if one were to carry one’s father on the left shoulder and mother on the right for a million years, providing clothing, food, bedding, medicine, and even allowing them to relieve themselves on their shoulders—still, one cannot repay their kindness.”
This powerful imagery isn’t just poetic; it emphasizes the depth of parental love and sacrifice. From birth through every stage of life, our parents nurture, protect, and provide—often at great personal cost. No material service, however extreme, could truly match the care they have offered us.
Immeasurable Gratitude: A Moral Foundation in Ekotara Agama 20.11
The Buddha teaches that gratitude to parents is a fundamental virtue, especially for monks and spiritual practitioners. Caring for one’s parents—whether through physical support, emotional presence, or heartfelt service—is not just a moral obligation, but a spiritual one.
Monks are urged to:
- Remain filial and attentive
- Practice consistent reverence
- Serve wholeheartedly, not out of duty alone, but from deep gratitude
During this teaching, the ārahant monks responded with joy and sincerity, their acceptance reflecting the emotional depth and ethical harmony of the Buddha’s message.
Commentary Highlights by Dr. Lim Siow Jin on Ekotara Agama 20.11
1. Parental Sacrifice as Root Virtue:
Dr. Lim emphasized that the gratitude we show to our parents forms the foundation of ethical living. It is the “root virtue” from which all other wholesome actions and moral strength grow.
2. Modern-Day Relevance:
In today’s fast-moving world, achievements and success often overshadow simple but profound duties like caring for parents. Dr. Lim urged everyone to reintroduce gratitude into daily life by practicing mindful service—whether through time, support, or presence.
This, he said, is how we keep ancient wisdom alive in modern hearts.
Conclusion
The session on EKOTARA AGAMA 20.11 served as a timely reminder of the sacred bond between parents and children. As Buddha taught, true gratitude goes beyond words—it must be lived, practiced, and expressed through our actions every day.
In a world striving for progress, may we never forget the silent sacrifices of those who gave us life and love unconditionally. To honor our parents is to walk the path of compassion, humility, and virtue.
